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4 Unusual Things That Make Men Attractive
F*ck the Male Gaze
Believe it or not, women are not just interested in how sexy a man looks.
The male gaze will have you believe that women like big muscular men with big ding dongs but the female gaze paints a very different picture.
It’s 2024 and with 2025 right around the corner, I started to think about all the things that make men and women attractive. For this article, I am focusing on men but maybe I’ll write one on women if the inspiration hits.
1. Hygiene
This one right here everyone should live by regardless of gender but specifically when a man goes out of his way to groom himself, take care of their skin, or personal hygiene.
There are men out there that take pride in the fact that they don’t shower and the lord has mercy on people’s noses but there is something attractive about a man that knows how to take care of himself.
Self-care is very important but it feels like most of the time it’s just women talking about it. Men who self-care are elite because they know what they like and they take care of themselves because they know their wants and needs.
